I've only had two gyn's in my life. My first was a wonderful, gentle man who, while he examined you, would speak in a very soft voice. Not a good-looking man (always glad about that), I never really knew much about his life. But he would always ask about mine. And tell me what I should do to make the part of it he was involved in ...well more enjoyable. And here I thought I was doing just fine.
He passed away a few years ago and I now go to a female gyn. While I was a little weirded out at first, it really is a much more comfortable situation. She is outgoing, younger and a think she might actually enjoy having sex.
As I arrived for my appointment yesterday, I had no real concerns over my health. All the moving parts seem to be functioning correctly and I feel better than I have in a long time. So when the Dr. said I was in really good shape for my age, I smiled as I was looking at the ceiling. Then I looked at her and realized she was speaking not about my overall body...but actually one specific area....yeah...there. Who knew it could get out of shape? And does getting out of shape there mean too much use...or too little? I probably should have asked, but I was kind of stunned at that moment.
As I got dressed, I was still thinking about her comment...but sure as hell felt pretty good about myself. So ladies, apparently there is more to taking care of yourself...than meets the eye.
Use it or lose it? You decide.